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This Security Guard Has Spent 17 Years Writing 3,000 Letters to Families of Indian Army Martyrs

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“I will always be grateful to you for the sacrifice you have made for the country. I promise that your son’s sacrifice will not go unrecognised,” writes Jitendra Singh Gurjar in one of his letters addressed to the family of Late Bhupendra Jaat, a soldier of the Indian Army who lost his life while fighting for the country.

Jitendra, a 37-year-old security guard currently posted with a private firm in Surat, has written close to 3,000 such letters, on postcards addressed with love and respect, to numerous families across India.

army1 “I have been writing these letters since the Kargil war. I think that being in the army is a tough job, and it is the country’s duty to respect those martyrs who sacrifice their lives for us. There are many people who have been living under the dark clouds of grief after losing their loved ones, and we should fulfil our moral duties towards those families,” he says. With this feeling, Jitendra started writing postcards to thank the families of Army martyrs across the country, to pay his respects, and to tell them that there is someone out there who is thinking about them. In the letters he acknowledges the fact that these martyrs gave up their lives to protect citizens like him. Jitendra began by collecting the address and contact details from the local newspapers of the martyrs’ home-towns that he obtained from different libraries.

Today, he has the details of about 20,000 martyrs, with their names, numbers, unit details, addresses, etc.

IMG-20160427-WA0005 This patriot has been working as a security guard for 13 years now. He uses the money from his own pocket to send the postcards and to procure the required addresses.
“One of the martyrs’ fathers once called me and told me that he wants to meet. We have not been able to meet yet, but I usually call him to remind that there is a person in Gujarat who is thinking about his son,” he says.
A resident of Kutkheda village in Bharatpur district of Rajasthan, Jitendra named his son after Late Hardeep Singh, a soldier who lost his life in 2003 fighting militants in Jammu and Kashmir. He has been inspired to take up this path because his father was also a soldier with the Army.

Jitendra wanted to join the army as well, but could not do so. He has visited the families of many martyrs to personally thank them.

IMG-20160427-WA0004 “My family thinks I am crazy to be doing something that gives no returns in spite of coming from a middle class background, but I am determined and will not leave this path till the end,” he concludes.

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An Armed Forces Veteran on the Honour and Dignity of Serving One’s Country

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When having a conversation with the inspiring people who choose to serve the country by joining the armed forces, one always has the privilege of listening to some amazing tales – stories full of passion, determination and dedication of our soldiers towards the nation. Here is one such narration by a veteran who is talking about the sense of honour and dignity he felt while he was in the Navy.

"I was the only one from my family who joined the forces," he says. This is his story:

" I was the only one from my family who joined the forces. All of them pretty much discouraged me from doing so. During... Posted by Veterans of India - Stories on Sunday, April 24, 2016

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Ramu to IAS Ramesh: The Story of a Disabled Bangle Seller Who is Now an IAS officer

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From selling bangles to becoming an IAS officer – who says hard work and determination don’t pay off? This is the inspiring story of Ramesh Gholap.  Ramesh Gholap, known as Ramu in his village Mahagoan in Barshi Taluka, Solapur district of Maharashtra, was a bright child. His father Gorakh Gholap ran a cycle repair shop, enough to provide an income for his family of four, but the business did not last long as his health suffered from constant drinking. It was then that Ramu’s mother Vimal Gholap started selling bangles in nearby villages to support the family. And though Ramu’s left leg was affected by polio, he and his brother joined their mother in her little venture. Ramu and his brother would yell out loud, “Bangde ghya bangde (Buy bangles!),” and their mother would help the women try them on. As Mahagaon had just one primary school, Ramu later went to stay in Barshi with his uncle to study further.

He knew education was the only way out of the poverty his mother and family were facing, so he worked as hard as he could.

[caption id="attachment_53357" align="aligncenter" width="1200"]1 (2) Ramu receiving a prize after winning a competition in Class 6.[/caption] Ramu’s sincerity and dedication made him a star among his teachers. But, in the year 2005, when he was in Class 12 and his college model exams were going on, he got news of his father’s death. The bus fare from Barshi to Mahagaon was Rs.7 those days. And since he received a bus pass for the disabled, the fare for him was just Rs. 2. But Ramu did not even have that.

His neighbours helped him with the money and only then could Ramu go for the last rites of his father.

[caption id="attachment_53358" align="aligncenter" width="1587"]6 Ramesh's father - Late Gorakh Gholap[/caption] Just four days after his father’s death, Ramu had a chemistry model exam in his college. On his mother’s insistence he went and appeared for the exam but, after that, he skipped the other model exams. He did not even submit his journals. The final exam for Class 12 was just a month away when he received a letter from his teacher that he had scored 35 marks out of 40 in chemistry. The teacher wanted to meet him. With help and encouragement from his teacher, Ramu took his final exams and scored 88.5%. Ramu chose to do D.Ed (Diploma in Education) in spite of scoring so well, because this was the cheapest course he could afford to do to get a job as a teacher and support his family. He completed his D.Ed and also pursued a graduate degree in Arts from an open university simultaneously. And finally, he was able to start working as a teacher in 2009. This was like a dream come true for his family. But, deep down, it was not what Ramu really wanted to do. Ramu lived with his mother and brother in a small room provided by his aunt, who had got her two-room home through a government scheme called Indira Awas Yojna. He saw his mother making visit after visit to government offices to get a house for herself too under the same scheme, but she was turned away because her BPL (below poverty line) card wasn’t eligible. Ramu was angry with the ration shop owner too, who sold kerosene in the black market instead of providing it to needy families like his. He had already been through the frustration of seeing his father not get adequate attention when he was admitted for tuberculosis in a government hospital.

He saw his mother and other widows being manipulated by an officer who collected money from them and made false promises to get them their pensions.

[caption id="attachment_53360" align="aligncenter" width="1200"]4 (1) Ramesh with his mother, Vimal Gholap.[/caption] During his college days, Ramu had been a member of the student’s union and consequently had to go the tehsildar’s office often to get approval for various college issues. He saw the tehsildar as being the most influential and powerful government official he had ever come across. Ramu decided he wanted to become a tehsildar too in order to solve all the problems he and his family faced. In September 2009, he took the first step towards his dream. Using the loan that his mother had taken from a self-help group in his village, Ramu went to Pune to prepare for the UPSC exam, taking a leave of six months from his job. “I did not even know the meaning of MPSC and UPSC since I had always lived in small villages. I did not have money to take coaching classes either. So, the first thing I did was to meet one of the teachers of these coaching classes, just to understand if I was eligible to take the UPSC exam. The first teacher who met me was Mr. Atul Lande. I requested him to write down the answers to a few of my questions, like what is UPSC, can it be taken in Marathi, am I eligible for it, etc. And he told me there was nothing to stop me from taking the UPSC. It is only because of that one statement that I finally did it,” says Ramesh Gholap. Ramu appeared for the UPSC exams in May 2010 but unfortunately didn’t make the cut. In the meantime, he had also formed a political party with the help of some friends in his village of Mahagaon to fight the local panchayat elections. His mother stood as a candidate for sarpanch. The mission of the party was simple – to come to power and help the distressed. On October 23, 2010, the results of the panchayat elections were out. Ramu terms this date as the biggest turning point of his life in his autobiography, Ithe Thambne Nahi (I Won’t Stop Here). Ramu’s mother, Vimal Gholap lost the elections by a few votes but the loss did not break Ramu. Instead, it gave him the strength to stand up and fight back again against the system. On the same day, he announced in front of all the villagers that he was leaving the village and would come back only when he became a powerful officer. After this, no one could stop Ramu. He left his job and cleared the State Institute of Administrative Careers (SIAC) exam – this gave him a hostel to stay in and a stipend as scholarship. He painted posters to take care of his expenditures. And finally, this son of illiterate parents, who studied in a zilla parishad school and by correspondence with open universities, cleared the UPSC examination with an all-India rank of 287, without any coaching.

Ramu was selected for the IAS in the year 2012. And, as per his promise, he came back to his village on May 12, 2012, after finishing a long journey from being Ramu to becoming Ramesh Gorakh Gholap, IAS.

[caption id="attachment_53362" align="aligncenter" width="1587"]5 Celebrations in Ramesh's village when he came back after becoming an IAS officer.[/caption] In the next couple of months, the MPSC results were also out and this time Ramu broke all records. He topped the Maharashtra Public Service Commission (MPSC) exam in the year 2012, scoring the highest ever marks of 1,244 out of 1,800.

Ramesh Gholap is now posted in Jharkhand as Joint Secretary in the Energy Department.

[caption id="attachment_53359" align="aligncenter" width="1200"]2 (2) Ramu to IAS Ramesh Gholap[/caption] “Mala swatala shikta nahi aala pan porala khup shikwaycha asa tharwila hota…Aaj majha mulga itka motha sahib zalay he baghun khup anand hoto…pang fedala porane (I couldn’t get an education but I had decided that I would educate my sons. Today, my son has become such a big officer and that makes me so happy…. my boy has returned all my debts!),” says Vimal Gholap.

Ramesh Gholap has given more than 300 informational and motivational talks to youngsters aspiring to take the MPSC or UPSC exams. He is also fulfilling his dream of helping the poor and distressed through his work.

[caption id="attachment_53361" align="aligncenter" width="1200"]3 (2) Ramesh helping a child labourer[/caption] “Whenever I cancel the licence of a PDS shop owner who has been black marketing kerosene, I remember my days when I had to turn off the lantern for lack of kerosene. Whenever I help a widow, I remember my mother begging for a house or for her pension. Whenever I inspect a government hospital, I remember my father’s words when he had left drinking and just wanted better treatment. He would ask me to become a big man and take him to a private hospital. Whenever I help a poor child, I remember myself, I remember Ramu,” says Ramesh Gholap, IAS.

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How a Prime Minister’s Rural Development Fellow Touched Several Lives before he Lost his Own

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For his compassion, his determination, his hard work, and his belief in positive outcomes – Suromani Boro is remembered for all this and more. A PMRD fellow who crossed many tough hurdles to complete his education, this is how he impacted the education of several students in Chhattisgarh. He was only 33 when Suromani Boro, a resident of Jonai village in Dhemaji district of Assam, lost his life in a road accident. He was posted in Balrampur district of Chhattisgarh as a Prime Minister's Rural Development Fellow (PMRDF) at the time.

Today, all his colleagues and those who were associated with him and his work, remember him for his incredible service and the remarkable impact he made while working with the education department in the district.

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“Suromani dedicated his fellowship tenure of 20 months to streamlining the education sector under my mentorship. We set out on an ambitious journey in this border district known for its demotivated staff and officers, along with notoriety for teacher absenteeism and school dropouts. Suromani, though from a law background, could instantly grasp the needs of the education sector in the district and stood firm with the team in finding solutions for the problems plaguing us,” Alex Paul Menon, the District Collector of Balrampur wrote in a letter to the Joint Secretary in Charge of PMRDF Scheme.
Suromani was working under his guidance and was often called the Collector’s blue eyed boy, famous for his inspiring passion and determination to give his 100% to every task he took up. The PMRDF scheme is an initiative by the Ministry of Rural Development – the Fellows work closely with the District Collectors of their assigned regions for two years, trying to bridge the gap between the needs of the people and the facilities provided by the government. After two years, the Fellows are also required to spend a year in public service in the states they have been assigned.

Suromani joined as a Fellow in July 2014 and was put in charge of the COSMOS project – Chhattisgarh Online School Monitoring System – which is an IT-based solution designed to check teacher absenteeism and school dropout rates in the district.

PMRD6 The project involved installation of biometric devices in every school in the district to keep track of teacher attendance – an issue that was very close to Suromani’s heart. He believed that if teachers start spending their time in classrooms, half of the education-related problems will be automatically solved. While the project was initiated by the District Collector, its complete responsibility was on Suromani’s shoulders and he ensured that all the devices were properly installed and the attendance of every teacher was recorded twice a day.

His efforts led to an 80% increase in teacher attendance in the schools of that district.

[caption id="attachment_54128" align="aligncenter" width="1000"]Teacher training session Teacher training session[/caption]

Additionally, he was also involved in the development of a child tracking system that generates a unique identification number for every child, which helps identify a total of 20,000 duplicate enrolments in schools.

PMRD9 Now, a database of all the children has been created and if a child is absent for more than five days, the teachers get an alert either on their mobile phones or in person, following which they can take the required actions. This project was honoured with the National e-Governance Award. During his tenure, Suromani started the Pehal initiative with the aim of educating children in Classes 9, 10 and 11 so they have the chance to reach a level playing field before the competitive exams. He used to visit the students personally, listen to the issues they were facing, and try to address them. Moreover, the district administration had decided to create model school campuses in at least 10% of the 2,000 schools in the area. As a part of this plan, every officer had to adopt a school and convert it into a model school with infrastructure development and other facilities.

With the support of Suromani, the officers were able to transform 25% school campuses into model campuses.

PMRD2 A lawyer by education, Suromani completed his BA LLB from North Eastern Hill University in Shillong and worked in the corporate sector for two years as a legal associate. Not satisfied with the work he was doing, he quit his job and joined the fellowship programme. His father used to work as a wage labourer till Suromani started earning, but the young man did not allow the financial condition of his family to come in the way of his education. He took a loan to pursue LLB and repaid it with his earnings. Since Suromani was aware how hard it was to get an education in his village, he always wanted to return one day and teach the children there.

He was proud of his culture back home and his Bihu dance steps were a major hit among his colleagues.

PMRD5 Another thing his colleagues never heard him say was that something is impossible. “My driving force is that if I don’t do it, who will do it then? If I don’t do it now, when will I do it then?” he used to say. Even on the Sunday when he met with the accident, Suromani had been working since 4 am in a nearby village and was returning from there. Anshuman Gupta, another PMRD fellow in Balrampur, has some very sweet memories of the time he spent with Suromani while working closely with him:
“Boro always acted like the understanding big brother and was the first one to give me advice, even when I did not ask for it…In fact, he was the big brother to everyone around – our driver, household help and even children playing on the street outside our house. He always had some philosophical answers to mundane everyday issues that we faced! In our initial days, we wanted a household help to cook food for us. One day, Gautam (another PMRDF) brought home a young lad named Mahesh who was staying in a nearby hostel and was studying in Class 11 at that time. Mahesh was willing to cook food for us just to earn some extra income. Boro, concerned that the work would hamper Mahesh’s education, asked him to bring his books to our home every day and study under his supervision. Even after I shifted rooms and we hired another help to cook, Mahesh continued to study with Boro. It is because of him that Mahesh, after taking his Class 12 exams, is now preparing for his pre-medical entrance test.”
Suromani is survived by his parents, a younger brother, a sister-in-law and a 5-year-old nephew. He has also left behind his dream of revamping the education system in Balrampur, and his colleagues have taken up that challenge now. They have started by establishing the Boro scholarship for the best performing students in the district. You can contact Anshuman by writing to him at anshuman0387@gmail.com.

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These Two Doctors Transformed One of Maharashtra’s Poorest Regions Into a Farmer Suicide-Free Zone

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Dr. Ravindra Kolhe and Dr. Smita Kolhe have transformed the lives of the tribals of Melghat. They have improved health outcomes in the area and helped the villagers gain access to electricity, roads and primary health centres. This is the story of their incredible journey. The year was 1985 and Mr. Deorao Kolhe was working with Indian Railways. His son, Ravindra, was doing his MBBS from Nagpur Medical College.  Everyone was waiting for the young man to finish his studies and return to his village Shegaon; Ravindra would be the first doctor in the family.

But little did the family know that instead of setting up a flourishing medical practice, their son was about to choose a completely different path in life.

[caption id="attachment_50377" align="aligncenter" width="500"]kolhe7 Dr. Kolhe checking a patient in Bairagarh[/caption] Dr. Ravindra Kolhe was highly inspired by the books of Mahatma Gandhi and Vinoba Bhave. By the time he finished his MBBS, he had decided to use his skills not for earning money but to help the most needy. The only question before him was: Where should I start my journey? But, soon enough, this question too was answered by the cover page of the book Where There is No Doctor, written by David Werner. The cover of the book showed four people carrying a patient, with the words – “Hospital 30 miles away" –written below. Dr. Kolhe decided he wanted to offer his services at some place that was far away from any medical facility. He chose Bairagarh, a small village in Melghat, Maharashtra. The journey to Melghat started from Amravati and all transport ended at Harisal, from where one had to walk 40 km to reach Bairagarh. According to Dr. Jaju, one of Dr. Kolhe's professors, any doctor working in such a remote location needed to know three things. First, how to deliver a baby without the facility of sonography or blood transfusion. Second, how to diagnose pneumonia without an X-ray. And third, how to cure diarrhoea. Dr. Kolhe went to Mumbai to spend six months learning how to do all three, and then left for Bairagarh.

But soon, Dr. Kolhe realized that an MBBS degree was just not enough to tackle the numerous problems faced by these medically deprived villagers.

“One man came on the 13th day after he lost one of his hands in a blast. I was not a surgeon and so I could not help him. That’s when I realized I need more study and more knowledge to help these people," says Dr. Kolhe.
Dr. Kolhe left Bairagarh to complete his MD in 1987. He prepared his thesis on malnutrition in Melghat. His thesis attracted the attention of the world towards this subject – BBC radio covered Melghat, thus bringing it to everyone's notice. Dr. Kolhe now wanted to return to Melghat again, but not alone. He wanted a true companion. He started searching for the right match for himself but had four conditions. First, the girl should be ready to walk for 40 km (the distance to be covered to reach Bairagarh). Second, she should be ready for a 'Rs. 5 wedding' (court marriages at the time cost Rs. 5). Third, she should be willing to manage financially with Rs. 400 per month (Dr. Kolhe charged Re. 1 per patient and had almost 400 patients every month). And lastly, she should be ready to beg too, not for herself but if needed, for the welfare of others.

After being rejected by almost 100 prospective brides, he finally met Dr. Smita, a doctor with a flourishing practice in Nagpur. She accepted Dr. Kolhe’s proposal, along with all his conditions.

[caption id="attachment_50383" align="aligncenter" width="498"]kolhe1 Dr. Ravindra Kolhe and Dr. Smita Kolhe[/caption] And so, in 1989, Melghat got its second doctor. But there was another challenge waiting for the couple in Bairagarh. People there had accepted Dr. Ravindra and begun to trust him after the first two years of his stay with them. But Dr. Smita, who was not docile but a fighter for women's empowerment, had to still be accepted by the villagers. One incident helped in this respect. Dr. Smita was pregnant with her first child. Dr. Kolhe decided to do the delivery himself in the same simple way as he did for the villagers. But due to some complications during the delivery, the baby was infected by meningitis, pneumonia and septicemia. People started suggesting that the mother and baby should be moved to a better hospital in Akola. Dr. Kolhe left the decision to Dr. Smita but he had decided in his own mind that if Smita opted to leave the village at this point, he would never come back to show his face to the villagers again.

But Dr. Smita decided to stay back and have her baby treated just like other village children would be in the same condition. This earned her the respect of the villagers.

[caption id="attachment_48665" align="aligncenter" width="493"]kolhe Dr. Ravindra and Dr. Smita in their early days in Bairagarh.[/caption]
Photo Credit : Melghatavaril mohracha gandh
“Every one knew that children were dying in Melghat due to malnutrition, or people were dying of pneumonia, malaria, snake bites, etc. So far, researchers used to find out just the reason behind the deaths, but no one researched the reason behind the reason for the deaths, which was poverty. They died of pneumonia because they didn't have enough clothes to keep them warm in winter. They died of malnutrition because they had no work and hence no money once the farming season was over. We wanted to 'cure' these root causes of death," says Dr. Ravindra Kolhe.
Once Dr. Ravindra and Dr. Smita had successfully worked on improving the health conditions in Bairagarh, the villagers started pestering them for help with cattle and plants too – thinking the couple had solutions to all their problems. As there was no other doctor in the village, Dr. Kolhe learnt about the anatomy of animals from a veterinary doctor friend, and studied agriculture at Punjab Rao Krushi Vidyapeeth, Akola.

He then developed a fungus-resistant variety of seed. But no one wanted to be the first to try it. So Dr. Kolhe and his wife started farming themselves.

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The doctor couple next went on to organize camps for youth to raise awareness about new farming techniques, saving the environment, and beneficial government schemes.

The message was simple: Farming is essential for growth and young people must take it up. 

kolhe3 This message had a greater effect once the Kolhes’ elder son Rohit became a farmer. “We started profit oriented farming. Soyabean was not cultivated in Maharashtra – we introduced it in Melghat. Apart from this, we asked the farmers to do mixed farming and cultivate all the crops needed for their basic needs first. Today, I am earning as much from my farm as an IITian would in a private firm," says Rohit Kolhe. The Kolhes also focused on conservation of forests. They kept a track of the environment cycle, which repeats after every four years. They can even predict a drought and help the villagers prepare for the same.

The couple also took up PDS (Public Distribution System) and made sure there was enough food for everyone at the time of rains too. This made Melghat a suicide-free zone for farmers.

[caption id="attachment_50382" align="aligncenter" width="498"]kolhe2 From Left to right- Rohit's wife, Rohit, Ram, Dr. Ravindra Kolhe, Dr. Smita Kolhe[/caption] "Give a man a fish and you feed him for a day; teach a man to fish and you feed him for a lifetime. We wanted to do the later," said the couple Once, the state's Public Works Department minister visited the Kolhes and was stunned to see how they lived. He expressed his desire to build a house for them there. Smita instead asked for good roads and he kept his promise.

Today, 70% of the villages are connected by roads.

[caption id="attachment_50379" align="aligncenter" width="498"]kolhe5 Dr. Kolhe's house in Melghat[/caption] Melghat is considered the most backward part of Maharashtra. There are around 300 villges in this area but almost 350 NGOs work here. But all they do is distribute free stuff, whereas Dr. Kolhe and Dr. Smita want the tribals to be self sustaining and not dependent on NGOs. This doctor couple's long battle has paid off and now Melghat has good roads, electricity and 12 primary health centres. Dr. Kolhe does not charge his patients anymore. He takes them to the government hospitals and makes sure they get the best treatment.

The village still lacks a surgeon and hence Dr. Kolhe’s younger son, Ram, who is pursuing his MBBS at the Government Medical college in Akola, wants to become a surgeon and follow in the footsteps of his father.

[caption id="attachment_50380" align="aligncenter" width="498"]kolhe4 Dr. Kolhe with his son, Ram[/caption] The power couple is still continuing their struggle to give the tribals of Melghat a better life. Their next mission is to get electricity to all the small villages of Melghat. “Though we got electricity in Dharni, there is a load shedding of almost 14 hours. Even that would have been enough but the voltage is so low that the farmers are unable to run their pumps. So this electricity does no good for their farming. If we go just 2 kms away from here, there is no electricity. Communication is also a huge hurdle to develop this place. Just like you could speak to us only after trying for a month, it's the same for everyone. If you are writing about us, then please add this point that the need for electricity in these villages for farming is as important as in metro cities to run a mall," concludes Dr. Kolhe. To learn more about the journey of Dr. Ravindra Kolhe and Dr. Smita Kolhe, you can read the book Melghatavaril Mohracha Gandh, written by Mrunalini Chitale, and Bairagarh, written by Dr.Manohar Naranje. You can also write to them at : Dr. Ravindra Kolhe, Mukkam Post - Bairagarh, Taluka - Dharni, District - Amravati, Maharashtra Pin - 444702

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6 Indian World War II Martyrs You Probably Haven’t Heard of Before

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As part of the British Indian Army, many Indian soldiers who were martyred during World War II were given the Victoria Cross (VC), the highest military award for on-ground combat. These heroes have gone unsung and unrecognised for far too long, both in India and in Britain. About 2.5 million Indians served the British Army during World War II. Indians were deployed to various parts of the world to fight the Axis powers, including in Europe, North Africa and the Middle East. During the six years the war lasted, India lost about 90,000 soldiers and 6,000 sailors. The United Nations has declared May 9 as a time of remembrance of those who lost their lives during World War II. On this day, we take a look at the stories of six brave Indians who laid down their lives serving the British Indian Army. They are among the many Indian and Nepalese soldiers who were posthumously awarded the Victoria Cross (VC), the highest gallantry award for valour in the face of the enemy, bestowed upon soldiers of Commonwealth countries.

Yeshwant Ghadge

[caption id="attachment_54812" align="aligncenter" width="185"]Yeshwant Ghadge Yeshwant Ghadge[/caption] Young 22-year-old Ghadge was a Naik with the 5th Mahratta Light Infantry, serving in the Upper Tiber Valley in Italy. The troops he was commanding came under heavy firing, injuring and killing many soldiers. As the enemy platoon advanced forward, he rushed to a machine gun. He threw a grenade which shook off some of the advancing platoon, and then fired at whoever was left. But two men from the enemy platoon still came forward. Ghadge, not getting the time to reload his weapon, instead picked up his gun and struck the two men on their heads, killing them. But he missed a sniper hidden at a distance, and was shot fatally.

Abdul Hafiz

[caption id="attachment_54809" align="aligncenter" width="320"]Abdul Hafiz Abdul Hafiz[/caption] Rao Abdul Hafiz Khan was 18 when he was serving the British Indian Army as a Jemadar in the 9th Jat Regiment. In April 1944, he was fighting at the Battle of Imphal, where he was ordered to lead his platoon to an enemy position. He had led them across a bare slope and climbed up a steep hill. During the climb, the enemy opened fire and threw grenades, injuring him. But he climbed on nevertheless, and once he reached the enemy bunker on the crest, snatched a machine gun from a soldier with his bare hands while another man killed the gunner. He led his platoon forward, eliminating the enemy one by one. He had received machine gun wounds, but even as he fell, his hands did not leave the trigger, firing at the enemy.

Karamjit Singh Judge

[caption id="attachment_54810" align="aligncenter" width="192"]Karamjeet Singh Karamjeet Singh[/caption] The 21-year-old lieutenant of the 4th Battalion, 15th Punjab Regiment was known for his bravery even before he was martyred. During the Burma Battle of Meiktila in 1945, while he was leading the infantry into enemy lines, he came face to face with two hidden Japanese soldiers. Only 10 yards away from them, he managed to kill them immediately. Later, towards the end of the battle, with just the last bunker to be eliminated, he led an army tanker till about 20 yards away, asking for a cease fire. He got 10 yards closer, but then the enemy fired at him, mortally wounding him. By then, the rest of his platoon captured the last bunker, securing a victory.

Prakash Singh Chib

[caption id="attachment_54807" align="aligncenter" width="392"]392px-Prakash_Singh_VC Prakash Singh Chib[/caption] When 32-year-old Prakash Singh Chib was hurt in both his ankles, he was told to step down during the ambush at Kanlan Ywathit in Burma. A Jemadar in the 4/13th Frontier Force Rifles, he couldn’t stand it when the second-in-command was also wounded. Angered, he forgot all about his pain and wounds, and crawled back to position. He commanded his unit, ordering positions, firing at the enemy. He was shot at again - twice - but he only dragged himself from point to point with his hands. He refused to give up and instilled confidence in his platoon members to drive out the enemy. He succumbed to his injuries soon after.

Fazal Din

[caption id="attachment_54808" align="aligncenter" width="435"]Naik Fazal Din Naik Fazal Din[/caption] Fazal Din was all of 23 years old when he bravely fought off Japanese troops in 1945. He was an acting Naik in the 7th Battalion 10th Baluch Regiment. At the ambush at Meiktila in Burma, Din’s troops were surrounded by three bunkers on one side and a house on the other. Without a second’s thought, Din threw grenades at the bunker closest to him and silenced it. Then, he led his troops forward, despite heavy firing from the other bunkers. When he was faced with Japanese soldiers, he didn’t back down. One of the soldiers stabbed him with a sword but he pulled the sword out of him and stabbed the soldier back, killing him. Despite a gaping hole in his body, he went on to kill more enemy soldiers, all the while encouraging his troops. He lost his life soon after recording his statement.

Ram Sarup Singh

Subadar Ram Sarup Singh was a Jemadar-acting-Subadar in the 2nd Battalion, 1st Punjab Regiment. He led his platoon through the Kennedy Peak in Tiddim, Burma, in October 1944 against the Japanese. Subadar Singh was shot on his thighs, but continued to fire against the Japanese bunkers, taking out several enemy soldiers. He finally succumbed to injuries on his neck and chest, but not without inspiring in his platoon a sense of gallantry and valour. Aged 32, he stopped a counter-attack with nothing but his light machine gun and fearlessness of death. [caption id="attachment_54811" align="aligncenter" width="220"]The Victoria Cross Medal The Victoria Cross Medal[/caption]
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Poor Relatives of Patients in Ahmedabad Hospital Get Free Food, Thanks to This Man

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Every day at 7 pm, Hemant Patel makes his way to the VS Hospital in Ahmedabad, carrying home-made food for more than 400 people. Once at the hospital, the retired engineer distributes the food to the poor relatives of patients – completely free of cost. The food, which is prepared by his wife, includes roti, sabji, khichdi and sweets. His actions are heart-warming, particularly in light of the fact that the inspiration for the initiative was born out of the 2002 riots.

Read his inspiring story here:

"During the 2002 riots, curfew had been imposed in our city. All the restaurants and shops were closed down due to which... Posted by Humans Of Amdavad on Sunday, 8 May 2016
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MY STORY: The Day a Cancer Patient in a Delhi Metro Station Restored My Faith in Humanity

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New to Delhi, Syed Manzer Imam was trying to find his way around the city when he came across Dilbagh, a Good Samaritan who helps strangers at Rajeev Chowk. This is his story. On the 8th of May, I was at Rajeev Chowk, on my way to Noida from Gurugram (Gurgaon.) Being new to the city, I was quite confused about the platforms and went to the route map to help me get a sense of my bearings. While I was looking at the route map, I heard a man saying, “Haan beta, puchho?” (Yes, son, tell me) I thought it wasn’t directed at me and ignored it. But again, the man said, “Kahan jana hai tumhe?” (Where do you want to go?) I told him that I was on my way to Noida and he guided me on the best way to get there. I thanked him with a smile, all the time wondering why he was helping me, only to realise that he was helping everyone.

He was standing near the route map and whenever anyone walked up to the map to try and understand which route to take, Dilbagh – as I later learnt was his name- helped them.

Unsung Hero I stood there, watching him help each and every person who walked up to him. Finally, overcome by curiosity, I walked up to him and asked him the reason for his selfless service. This is what he said:
"I am a cancer patient. Three years ago, my doctors believed that the cancer would kill me. But, by God’s grace, I am still alive. I have received this ‘Bonus’ life and it has all come because of the blessing of others. So I decided to help people as much as I can. One day, I will die. But before that day comes, I want to have as many blessings as I can."
I was dumbstruck by his words and was thinking over what he had said when I caught sight of a bag next to him. It was filled to the brim with chips, wafers and biscuits. I asked him if he was selling these snacks. He laughed and said:
"No, no, these are for the sweepers. As they are leaving for the day, I distribute these snacks amongst them. They then take it home to their kids. So yes, more blessings."
I was shell-shocked to see such a pure soul in the midst of the country’s capital; helping people selflessly and with a big smile. Yes, there are good people out there. Let us all try to be like them. - Syed Manzer Imam

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Caring for the Terminally Ill and Those in Pain, This Man Has Helped Thousands

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Pallium India offers palliative care services free of cost to the needy, giving thousands a better quality of life – and death. There are some moments in life that define you. They stop you in your tracks, rudely shake you awake from your comfortable existence and push you to reconsider your life choices. They go on to guide your every decision and become an intrinsic part of your character. M R Rajagopal experienced one such moment at quite a young age. He was studying medicine when his neighbour was diagnosed with cancer. “He lived about 100 metres away,” recalls 68 year-old Dr Rajagopal, “All night I could hear him screaming in pain. The family asked me if I could help because I was a medical student, but I was in my first year and did not know much."

"I remember that I avoided him and the family and did not even visit him. I felt terribly helpless. That helplessness has stayed with me all these years and was one of the reasons that made me look at pain as a disease.”

[caption id="attachment_55060" align="aligncenter" width="960"]Palliative Care Dr Rajgopal[/caption] In the 1980s, Dr Rajagopal had yet another life defining moment, one that would go on to impact thousands of lives in the future. “When I was working as an anaesthetist in the Medical College of Calicut, I treated a 42 year-old college professor who had cancer. He was in agonising pain and I treated his pain with a nerve-block. It gave him pain relief and I was very happy,” says Dr Rajagopal. When the professor asked Dr Rajagopal when he could come back to continue the treatment, the doctor told him that he needn’t come back unless the pain came back. The professor went home and committed suicide that night.
“I later learnt that nobody had given him any information about the disease. When I told him not to come back, he realised that his disease was incurable. I had not bothered to find out about the human being, about his feelings... The incident triggered me to look outside of pain, to look at the person as a whole.”
And so began Dr Rajagopal’s journey into palliative care. “Palliative care aims to improve the quality of life. This goes hand-in-hand with curative treatment and continues to care for the person even if a cure is not possible. It also continues to support the family when the patient is gone. It is about quality of life and quality of death,” explains Dr Rajagopal.

“Today, medicine focuses on the disease only, while palliative care looks at the person and the family. We consider the treatment of the disease important, but we consider the person and their family more important.”

[caption id="attachment_55061" align="aligncenter" width="1000"]Dr Rajgopal with a patient Dr Rajgopal with a patient[/caption] In 1993, driven by the desire to provide palliative care to the needy, the doctor started the Pain and Palliative Care Society. In one short year, the Society developed a full-fledged home visit programme with trained doctors making their way to bed-ridden patients, often in far-flung rural areas and sometimes in neighbourhoods in their own cities. In a bid to curb the destructive effects of the disease on patients and their families, the organisation offers patients free treatment as well as free medicines. For families who are struggling to put food on the table, food packets are provided.
“We also identify children who are at risk of dropping out of school from these families and support their education. At present, we support around 329 children in and around Trivandrum,” Dr Rajagopal says.
In 2003, driven by the dream to provide all Indians access to palliative care, Pallium India was formed. As the organisation grew, so did its activities. Pallium India went from providing palliative care in Kerala, to setting up palliative care units in existing institutions across the country. The organisation actively seeks out institutions to partner with locally, trains their personnel, helps them set up their palliative care units and continues to provide them with institutional, need-based support for around two years. “By then, all of them become rather self-sustaining,” says Dr Rajagopal.

Pallium India has helped set up Palliative Care Units in Dehradun, Lucknow, Patna, Shillong, Agartala, Nagpur, Pondicherry, Jamnagar and many other places.

[caption id="attachment_55062" align="aligncenter" width="1000"]The Pallium India team on a home visit The Pallium India team on a home visit[/caption] Several of these Centres conduct free home visits and offer free medication as well. A few years into his work, Dr Rajagopal also realised that he was greatly handicapped by outdated and impractical laws that restricted access to essential pain relief medication like morphine. “We realised that without changing the laws and policies, we could not hope to make much progress,” he says. While he had already been advocating policy change at the state level, with Pallium India, his voice found a national audience.

In 2014, Pallium India’s advocacy efforts paid off and the Parliament passed an amendment to the Narcotic Drugs and Psychotropic Substances Act, making pain relief medicine more accessible to those suffering from chronic pain. The amendment provided a huge boost to the palliative care movement in India.

[caption id="attachment_55065" align="aligncenter" width="1000"]A doctor with Pallium India on a home visit A doctor with Pallium India on a home visit[/caption] Yet, in many ways, the work is only just beginning. “Legal barriers are not the only barriers we face. Two generations of doctors and nurses have not even seen a morphine tablet. They simply do not know about it,” Dr Rajagopal says. “More shocking still is that pain assessment and management is not a part of the medical curriculum in India. It is an atrocious state of affairs.”

Pallium India has set out to rectify this situation by setting up palliative care training centres in different parts of the country. “Without education, we cannot make progress. It is a step up,” says Dr Rajagopal.

[caption id="attachment_55066" align="aligncenter" width="1280"]Palliative Care Dr Rajagopal conducting a class[/caption] The centres will help create a crop of medical personnel efficient in dispensing palliative care services, ensuring that palliative care becomes a more widespread phenomenon.The organisation is now looking at increasing its national presence and running several awareness programmes. “When I was in Delhi recently, a doctor asked me what palliative care is,” says Dr Rajagopal. “A study published in 2014 found that one third of the doctors in UP had not heard of palliative care.” Awareness is – undeniably – the need of the hour. To know more about the incredible work the organisation is doing, log on to their website www.palliumindia.org You can also contact them at info@palliumindia.org

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This Auto Rickshaw Can Teach in 10 Minutes What No School Can Teach in 10 Years

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The humble auto-rickshaw has a cult status in Bengaluru. Many a film has an auto-rickshaw driver as the hero. The heroic auto-driver bashes up baddies, chases them on his auto and weaves in and out of traffic magically in a great rush to do good, all the time singing a peppy song. In real life, I got into an auto recently, and the music did begin – popular patriotic film song Nanhe munne bachche tere mutthi mein kya hai...

“I can usually gauge within a couple of minutes what kind of music my passenger may like, and I play music accordingly,” said the auto-driver, Abdul Khader softly.

[caption id="attachment_55401" align="alignnone" width="1836"]Abdul and his auto Abdul and his auto[/caption] He had picked me up from outside an NGO doing work in the field of elementary education, and so he may have rightly assumed I was interested in children! So, for the next hour or so, many child-centric songs played softly on his system while we talked, strictly only when he stopped at traffic signals. Clearly, no talking while driving for this gentleman! Instead of looking out at the thick traffic on Bangalore's road, today I could let my eyes wander around the interior of the auto; there was so much to read there! Pithy sayings, SSLC exam schedule, helpline numbers, citizen awareness news, and much more. [caption id="attachment_55402" align="alignnone" width="1836"]Inspired by Gandhi and Dharmendra Inspired by Gandhi and Dharmendra[/caption] “I select songs in different categories, and save the collections on a pen drive - old hits, patriotic songs, inspirational songs, spiritual songs and Dharmendra songs,” he said at the very first signal. Why Dharmendra, I asked and had to wait till the next signal to hear the answer.
“Dharmendra has taught me a lot. The characters he played in films always inspired me. I wasn't very good at studies. When I was eight years old, my father died and I stopped studying. One day, in a spurt of naughtiness, a friend and I stole a couple of sticks of sugarcane from a roadside stall outside a theatre, and ran into the theatre to escape being caught. However, we were caught, and I said I just wanted to work at the theatre. So I started doing odd jobs there, and for 14 years, sold chips and popcorn. Apart from that, I worked at an embroidery unit in Shivajinagar. But always, my dream was to own an auto.”
While Abdul plodded on through the traffic, I looked up; no Sistine Chapel this, but the 'ceiling' of the auto was still awesome; the sun and moon and planets, and dozens of cartoon characters from television serials looked down upon the passenger cheerfully. On one side was a poster showing various stages of Mahatma Gandhi's life, childhood onwards.

Another side had statistics about dowry. Why so many anti-dowry posters, I asked at the next stop.

[caption id="attachment_55413" align="alignnone" width="3264"]Anti-dowry posters Anti-dowry posters[/caption] “So many people suffer because of this practice. A man has to be able to take care of his wife without having to take dowry from her family,” said Abdul, talking shyly about the time he dipped into his savings to buy his bride-to-be a sari and desi-ghee-ke-laddoo. After one failed attempt to go work in the Middle-east when he was duped by an agent, Abdul tried a second time and was successful. After working with an airline catering company for several years and earning not just decent wages but also a reputation for being extremely resourceful and honest, Abdul returned to Bangalore.

“Passengers used to leave their valuables in the plane. Mobiles, money, even jewellery, and I always used to return it to the authorities. We used to be rewarded for this,” recounted Abdul.

[caption id="attachment_55465" align="aligncenter" width="960"]So much to learn in an auto. (Photo credit: Purna Sarkar) So much to learn in an auto. (Photo credit: Purna Sarkar)[/caption]
“The kids are very happy to come in my auto, and I feel happy about it. If a child has a birthday, I get them some chocolates, but always ask them to share it with others. Behind the passenger seat is a decorative branch of leaves. On each leaf, I'm planning to paint the name of each child I take to school on a regular basis,” he said, “adding more leaves as the number of kids goes up.”
Abdul has many ideas to make his auto as useful as possible to passengers. He has a mobile charger, a first-aid kit, and always keeps a bottle of water. “I have many friends who work on computers. Whenever I come with an idea, I ask them to design a chart and get a printout, which I paste somewhere inside the auto.”

Having run his 'campaigns' against dowry, against smoking, and against child marriages, he now wants to put up something about the importance of education for girl children.

[caption id="attachment_55403" align="alignnone" width="1836"]Bahu is your Beti Bahu is your Beti[/caption] After he had dropped me home, I gave him a set of books to be given to his grandchildren. Abdul looked at the stack of books...and then at the interior of the auto. “I think I can fix a clamp here, and keep these books for passengers to read...” This soft-spoken, auto driver is a hero to his regular passengers. Once their exam results are out, the kids are expecting gifts from Auto Uncle.

He sets aside a part of his earnings for his passion to educate the passenger, young and old, and to reward his bright little passengers.

[caption id="attachment_55466" align="aligncenter" width="960"]Auto-classroom. (Photo credit: Purna Sarkar) Auto-classroom. (Photo credit: Purna Sarkar)[/caption] “I think I'll buy some school bags this year to be given away as gifts to the kid who do well in their school. I was not able to study much, but I want all the children of today to be educated well,” he said, as he left. Certainly, much to learn from this little classroom on three wheels!
All photographs, unless mentioned, by: Mala Kumar

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About the author: Mala Kumar is a freelance journalist, author and editor with Pratham Books, a mutli-lingual publisher. She loves to play with words and children. She learnt a lot about money while writing the series of books called 'Rupaiya Paisa', including the fact that investing in every child's education today is a wise way to ensure a healthy society for all in the future.

At 18, He Adopted a Prostitute’s Kids. Today, He Has Rescued 1000+ Girls from Sex Traffickers.

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Almost 1,400 traffickers have had cases filed against them and many are rotting in jail, thanks to Ajeet Singh who has been waging a war to free minor girls from their clutches. Read how he broke the complex system of sexual exploitation in Varanasi. Ajeet Singh was just 18 when he attended a wedding in his home town near Varanasi in 1988. It was here that he saw a nautch girl performing at the wedding.
“The way people were looking at her and treating her was something that shocked and deeply saddened me. It was then and there that I decided to do something to free girls like her from such a profession,” recalls Ajeet.
This was not just a passing thought that Ajeet had that day. When the girl finished her performance, Ajeet went up to her and asked if he could take care of her children and give them an opportunity to study and lead a better life. [caption id="attachment_42577" align="aligncenter" width="1024"]Ajeet Singh was still in his teens when he realized what he wanted to do. Ajeet Singh was still in his teens when he realized what he wanted to do.[/caption] It wasn’t easy for an 18-year-old boy who was still in his first year of college to take on such a big responsibility. But Ajeet didn’t think twice and actually adopted the three children of the girl.
“Of course my decision was not welcomed by my family or society. I faced huge opposition from everyone. But this is what I wanted to do,” he says.
He then went ahead and started teaching the children in his spare time and helped them come up with life goals that would take them far away from the dark streets on which their mother lived.

In addition, he started going to the red light areas of Varanasi to teach the children of the women who worked there. But he soon realised that the problem was much more complex than he had thought.

[caption id="attachment_42579" align="aligncenter" width="1024"]From giving education opportunities to helping girls lead better lives, Ajeet has been a constant support to the girls in Varanasi. Ajeet provides educational opportunities to the children of women who work in the red light area of Varanasi.[/caption]
“The whole profession and system are so complex that providing mere education to the kids or spreading awareness about health, HIV, etc., cannot solve it. The issue is slavery and the need to abolish the system of sex trafficking. It is only then that girls can be saved to lead better lives,” he says.
It was time to take a more aggressive approach, Ajeet thought. And this is when he started an organization called Guria in 1993 to fight against the sexual exploitation of girls, especially minors. What these girls needed was freedom and he was here to help them. Ajeet prepared himself to take on the racket. He got a few hidden cameras—in his pen, shirt button, watch, etc.— and started to pose as a customer, only to track the locations of red light areas and the number of minor girls there. Once he had done the mapping, he collected a large number of volunteers and raided the Shivdaspur red light area of Varanasi. They managed to rescue 15 girls in one day.

Since then he has conducted raids on all the red light areas of Varanasi and rescued over 1,000 girls so far.

[caption id="attachment_42581" align="aligncenter" width="1024"]Ajeet organizes many campaigns and rallies to spread awareness about the issue of sex trafficking. Ajeet organizes many campaigns and rallies to spread awareness about the issue of human trafficking.[/caption] Once the girls are rescued, they are sent to government shelters and homes and, after counselling, sent back to their parents. A close track is kept of their activities to make sure they do not end up back in the same situation again.
“Today, I can say Varanasi is almost free from child prostitution,” claims Ajeet.
After he started rescuing the girls, Ajeet decided the next step was to take on the pimps and brothel keepers who played a key role in the prostitution racket. “Even the police did not do anything and we thought it was time to bring this issue out in the open,” he says. So, apart from rescuing girls, Ajeet started taking legal action against the sex traffickers. Through his organization, Guria, he has filed about 1,400 cases against traffickers and has even landed many of them in jail. Guria’s work does not end with just filing cases against the traffickers. The organization also tries to ensure that those who have been convicted do not get bail. The team works intensively towards the bail rejection of such convicts—over 400 such bail requests have been rejected due to Guria’s intervention.
“Often, these traffickers who get bail come out quickly and start doing what they did earlier. We make sure they stay in jail for a long time. Some of them have been in jail for about four to five years now,” says Ajeet.
Another area of focus is to get the rescued girls to the court for trials. They are provided witness protection, helped with mock trials, provided counselling, and encouraged to speak up about the wrong that has been done to them. Over 108 girls are currently being protected and hidden at various locations to get them ready for trial.

Guria also helps in rehabilitating the rescued girls and teaching them various skills so they can switch to other professions.

[caption id="attachment_42575" align="aligncenter" width="1024"]Guria also provided witness protection in courts so that girls can bravely take their stand against traffickers. Guria is working to prevent trafficking, especially of minor girls.[/caption] Educational workshops and awareness campaigns are among the other initiatives of Guria.
“Our idea is not just to provide one-time support. These girls are like our children. You cannot just provide clothing or just food to your children. You have to give them overall support. This is what we do for these girls,” says Ajeet.
Thanks to Ajeet, thousands of girls lead a better life today. Ishita (name changed), a 17-year-old minor girl was kidnapped from near her house in Varanasi in 2009. She was taken to New Delhi by the traffickers and was raped repeatedly by numerous men inside a locked room. She was then taken to Surat and was gang raped for several days. Ishita's horror did not end here. She was then taken to Mumbai where traffickers planned to sell her to a third party. This is when the Guria team intervened and rescued the girl from the claws of the traffickers. They did not just bring Ishita back to her family but also got the lead trafficker arrested and made sure his bail was rejected. The case is under trial in district court. What may appear to be a simple success story wasn’t easy to implement at all. Ajeet had to face challenges from all sides—from family members who went against him for choosing to work in this field to brothel keepers who would go to extreme lengths to make sure Ajeet did not succeed in his mission.

“I have been attacked so many times and given death threats. Even my family did not support me. A lot of people raised question about my work but I was determined to save the lives of these girls,” says Ajeet.

Ajeet wants to make sure that no girl is forced to enter the dark profession of sex trade. Rather, he wants to give them a joyfull and happy life. Ajeet wants to make sure that no girl is forced to enter the dark profession of sex trade. Also, the network of brothels is so complex that many girls always speak in favour of the brothel keepers.
“They are brought up in that environment, they are scared and never speak against them. When it comes to minors, we do not listen to them and sometimes have to pull these girls out of the brothels,” he says.
With a team of 25 members and hundreds of volunteers, Ajeet continues his mission to eliminate this profession entirely from the streets of Varanasi. He gets support from CRY and individual donations, which help him conduct rescue operation and organise various workshops. In the future, Ajeet wants to continue with his mission to make sure no girl is forced into this dark profession. To know more about his work, check out his website.

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This Professor Has Been Giving Free Coaching to Students of Competitive Exams for Last 10 Years

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“While I offer this service for free, I do ask for something in return from my students – a promise that they will pass on the kindness by helping other needy students. It might surprise you, but I don't have to spend a single rupee on faculty as all my past students are training my current students,” says Professor Hidayat Saiyed of Ahmedabad who believes that if you have knowledge, you must share it. From a time when he could not succeed in a competitive exam because of the lack of money to afford proper guidance, to today when he is guiding students free of cost, in 13 centres all over Gujarat – this is his story:
Meet Professor Hidayat Saiyed who is an epitome of kindness. He runs Sarovar Education Society. The social work he has... Posted by Humans Of Amdavad on Sunday, May 22, 2016
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The REAL Heroes: Meet the British Indian Lawyer Who Had Started the ‘Free Sarabjit Singh’ Campaign

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Meet Jas Uppal, a British lawyer fighting to save Indian citizens implicated in wrongful legal cases abroad and without the resources to bring themselves safely home. She started the ‘Free Sarabjit Singh’ campaign and has since then rescued several migrant workers who were treated mercilessly in Iraq, Kuwait and Saudi Arabia – without charging them a single penny. Jas Uppal was horrified when she first came to know about the case of Sarabjit Singh - the Indian citizen who was detained in Pakistan. He was convicted by the Supreme Court of Pakistan for alleged terrorism and spying. After a brief trial, he was sentenced to death in 1991 under charges of involvement in a series of bomb attacks in Lahore and Faisalabad that killed 14 people in 1990. Sarabjit’s family, on the other hand, claimed that he was a farmer living in a village near the border who had strayed into Pakistan by mistake. His sentence was repeatedly postponed by the Government of Pakistan because of the pleas of his family and civil societies. After being in prison for more than 23 years, he was attacked by fellow inmates in the jail and died in 2013. “Initially, there wasn’t much information about what was going on. I contacted his sister. It took me ages but I found out what the issue was, and it didn’t make sense. The evidence seemed to be of very terrible quality,” says Jas, who is a lawyer living in England.

She then started the ‘Free Sarabjit Singh’ campaign to highlight the case and request human rights groups to intervene.

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“I asked his daughter why she had not done something about this before. And I was not expecting the answer she gave me. She said ‘we thought he was dead.’ She had found out only five years ago that her father was still alive. But even then she had not been able to do anything because of lack of resources,” says Jas.
While working on the campaign, many other people contacted her for help with similar cases of human rights violations. “I realised then that there were many such people who did not get the required help or support from Indian authorities to fight their cases. This was because they had no money or approach,” she says.
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With this thought, Jas started Justice Upheld – an organization meant to help people with genuine cases but no money or other resources to fight for themselves.

Jas Uppal

Born and brought up in England, Jas had never been to India except once as a child, even though her parents are from Punjab. It was only in 2008 that she went back again for her brother’s wedding, and fell completely in love with the country. She started Justice Upheld unofficially in 2009 and got it registered as a British charity in June this year. Today, when someone approaches her with a case, Jas first checks if there is legal merit to it and whether it deals with human rights. She then checks the financial status of the victim and based on that takes up the case for free. Right now, Justice Upheld is working only with Indian nationals in different places in the world.

Jas comes across a number of heart wrenching cases.

Jas Uppal Like that of Jaswant Singh, an Indian citizen from a village in Punjab, who left for Kuwait to work as a driver in June 2014. Little did he know that he would actually end up working as a camel herder -- without pay and any medical assistance. Within a few days of reaching Kuwait, he was sent to Saudi Arabia. But after reaching there he was left to work on a farm as a camel herder. His work there was more like that of a bonded labourer. He was not given anything to eat and the farm owners made him drink the water meant for camels. This led to a severe stomach infection that made him very ill. No help was forthcoming from his employer, who was holding on to his passport and would not let him go. But thanks to Jas, after working for more than a year on the farm, Jaswant was rescued with the help and support of Justice Upheld. He received medical assistance and is presently waiting for his formal documents in order to return to India. Jas is continuing to fight for him.
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In a similar case of gross human rights abuse, many Indian nationals were unlawfully detained in Iraq. “I have cases of Indian migrants who got jobs through local recruitment agents that charge loads of money. But on reaching there they have to work as bonded labour,” explains Jas.

She has helped release many such people, who have then gone on to spread the word about her.

[caption id="attachment_40080" align="aligncenter" width="800"]Jas Uppal Image of Indian nationals in Shumaisi Deportation Centre, located between the cities of Makkah and Jeddah, Saudi Arabia[/caption] She takes up cases that people approach her with and also those that she hears about. Read about more cases where Jas has been involved, here.
“Can you imagine what it must be like when nobody can help you or wants to help you? And you spend a good 5-6 years of your life in prison...your access to justice denied?” she asks.
While she has been using her own money to run Justice Upheld so far, she is now looking for donations and is organizing a fundraiser for the charity. “I am looking for some kind of affiliation with human rights organisations in India. I would like to connect with them so we can do a lot more work,” she adds.
Her journey so far has been very challenging and frustrating. “Getting through to the Indian officials has been a very big challenge for me. People think I must be getting something in return for all this. That’s difficult to explain. They think I am related to the victim in some way. Additionally, my experience has been that people are always pleading (with Indian officials) to get things done. And I find that quite uncomfortable when people have to beg and plead to get things done.”
“My work is not about money. It’s about demonstrating faith. I think if something is about doing some good, it will work itself out. I have met so many people I would not have met otherwise. I am grateful for that. I have also been to India about eight times in a short while,” she concludes.
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Note: The article has only one picture of Jas on personal request, for security reasons.

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From Losing Both Hands at the Age of 14 to Finishing 300 Paintings – The Battle of an Artist

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Dhaval Khatri lost both his hands at the age of 14 and his school asked him to leave. But no such obstacle could stop him from continuing his education, writing all his exams himself, playing guitar and finally – painting. Calling himself “an artist, not by choice but by chance”, Dhaval says that he has made 300 paintings till now. This is his story.
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Here is a look at some of his paintings:

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When the Government Turned a Blind Eye, This Village Decided to Build a Road on it’s Own

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Ganesh Dhoke, a 21-year-old farmer from Paradsinga, is on a mission. He has just completed the construction of a half kilometre road that connects about 50 farms with his village and he now wants to finish the remaining work on the road. Paradsinga is a small village in Madhya Pradesh, which is about 60 kms away from Nagpur. During the monsoons, the farms used to be cut off from the village, making it difficult for the farmers to go to work.

The only road connecting them with their farms was in bad condition and would get waterlogged with knee-deep water. Also, water-logging was affecting the fertility of the soil.

IMG_20160415_093638 “We went to the rural administration office and also panchayat asking for help. But they didn’t respond. So I, along with 40 other farmers, took up the initiative to construct the road, all by ourselves. Initially, it was difficult for me to convince the farmers,” says Ganesh. Ganesh gathered money by going door-to-door in the village. Forty farmers from the village contributed what they could and Ganesh managed to get about Rs. 20,000 for the construction. Since there was a shortage of manpower, some farmers also worked as labourers. Shweta Bhattad, a Nagpur based farm activist who was constructing a pond in her farm in Paradsinga, provided Ganesh with important machinery.

Ganesh and the villagers have managed to construct a half kilometre stretch and are now trying to raise money to add another one kilometre to the road.

IMG_20160415_093658 With the help of sarpanches from Paradsinga and Kodadongri, and a Nagpur based choreographer named Parvinder Singh Dadiyala, the farmers are also planning to construct a dam in order to increase the groundwater table in the area. This will help address the acute water crisis situation. In the past, the farmers of Paradsinga village had ‘grown’ the face of Prime Minister Narendra Modi in a field and penned a letter to him as well to highlight their plight. The letter went viral, with various social activists and farmer groups coming forward to help them. Read more about it here.

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Here’s Why Mumbai Taxi Driver Gadadhar Mandal Is One of India’s Most Honest Men

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Meet Gadadhar Mandal, a 53-year-old taxi driver in Mumbai who is known and respected for his honesty. His regular passengers know him as the person who has returned numerous mobile phones to people who leave theirs in his cab. The exact number, he tell, is 14 from the year 2004 to 2014.

Every time he finds a phone in his car, Gadadhar ensures that it reaches the owner as soon as possible – no matter how far he is from the concerned person, or how busy he is at that time.

mandal Photo Credit: Ketan Rindani
“People usually call back when they realise that they have forgotten their phones. Mostly, I come to know about the phone only when it rings. I immediately receive the call, ask for the person’s address and return it,” says Gadadhar, who has been a taxi driver for 22 years now.
In 2014, while changing the seat covers of his taxi, he realised that a phone had fallen off between the seats. It had been left behind by a woman about 15 days back. The phone was off. On recharging it, Gadadhar realised that it was in silent mode, which was why he had missed the 78 calls made by the owner in the first two days. He called back on the same number and the woman, who was working as a nurse at the time, visited his place to take the phone. “It was a costly phone, and she was very happy. She rewarded me with Rs. 2,000 and also wrote a letter to thank me, which I always keep in my cab now,” he smiles.

If a passenger is unable to reach his phone because it is switched off, Gadadhar recharges it, finds and calls the relevant numbers and makes sure that he is able to find the owner.

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“I feel very happy when I return these phones. Some people shake hands, salute or hug me, give me some money – it feels very nice,” he says.

Gadadhar lives with his wife and two children at his residence in Santacruz area of Mumbai.

taxi1 While he could study only till Class 8, he made sure that his children received their education. His daughter works as a manager with HDFC bank now, and his son is about to complete his Charted Accountancy course. Gadadhar says that he was fortunate enough to experience the positive impact of being honest. In 2004, a couple liked his taxi and said that if he took the same route every day, they would regularly commute to work with him. However, on the fifth day, the woman left her phone behind. This was the first time that Gadadhar found a phone in his car. He reached her office, called her husband to inform, and returned it.
“It was 2004. Phones used to be costly that time. The couple was so impressed that they invited me home for dinner and showed a lot of respect. I worked with them for nine years after that. This episode taught me the lesson that one act of honesty helps you gain respect from people who start treating you like family. This is what inspired me to continue doing the same every time I find something mistakenly left behind in my taxi,” he concludes.
Story courtesy: Ketan Rindani You can contact Gadadhar by writing to him at mandal.goodcab@gmail.com

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Why an Engineer with an MBA Degree Is Now Building a Model Village in Andhra Pradesh

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He quit a well-paying corporate job to build a ProtoVillage that will exemplify abundance for the rest of the country. This is the story of Kalyan Akkipeddi.
“On my 30th birthday, a friend asked – ‘How many years do you have to be socially productive now?’ Maybe 30, I said, and multiplied it with 365 days. Suddenly, I had about 10,000 days staring at me, and there I was on my first day, doing nothing. We always used to talk about what we can do for other people, but it was only talk all the time. So I decided to make those 10K days count. The very next day, I went back to my workplace and submitted the papers for my resignation,” recounts 38-year-old Kalyan Akkipeddi.
Today, Kalyan is heading the construction of an entirely new village in Andhra Pradesh. He calls it ProtoVillage – the prototype of an abundant rural community that is being built for and by the villagers themselves. The idea is to make something that can be replicated all over the country. Surprised? Get ready to be amazed. This is the story of how an engineer with an MBA degree ended up building a village and living in it.

2008

[caption id="attachment_40204" align="aligncenter" width="1500"]Andhra Pradesh Village Kalyan Akkipeddi with kids in ProtoVillage[/caption] After quitting his job, the only thing Kalyan wanted to do was to travel around the country to understand the role poverty plays in the lives of most Indians. This had often been the topic of discussion between him and his colleagues. But he set up an interesting condition for himself -- that throughout the journey he shouldn’t have to pay for his food and accommodation. “So, in the interest of survival, I started travelling through rural India, because I felt it would be easier to make friends in the villages and get food too,” he says. And thus, what started as an attempt to understand the poverty structure in the country, ended with Kalyan travelling for two and a half years straight.
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The experience was very confusing for Kalyan in the beginning. During his days in the corporate world he had heard people reduce the entire issue of poverty to things like poverty line, bottom of the pyramid, etc.

[caption id="attachment_40210" align="aligncenter" width="960"]Andhra Pradesh Village Farming in ProtoVillage[/caption]
“But it is difficult to be convinced that if suddenly everyone could spend $ 1.25 a day the world will be a better place…I couldn’t find a standard definition for poverty.”
This was the state of mind with which he entered a tribal belt – from the west extreme of Kutch, through central India, all the way to Sundarbans in the east. Kalyan travelled in this region for eight months, a period he calls the most inspiring time of his life. In this tribal belt he found some communities living in complete happiness – they literally had no complaints about life. It was then that an idea struck him – instead of spending energy on eradicating poverty, why were people not working on creating abundance?
“That sounded a lot more empowering to me than removing something that I did not even understand,” he says.
Thus, the idea of ProtoVillage was born.

2010

[caption id="attachment_40206" align="aligncenter" width="1000"]Andhra Pradesh Village Initial days in ProtoVillage[/caption] Kalyan came down to his native place - Anantpur district of Andhra Pradesh. Here, he travelled around 166 villages and finally chose Tekulodu village as the one where he would live and start working. He was careful not to set any big expectations around his presence in the village and his goals in the initial days were to simply document the lifestyle of the villagers, and to work on blending in. Eventually, when the villagers saw him coming in very early each day and leaving late, they offered him a small house to stay. Kalyan decided that he would eat at a different house each day and provide an extra set of hands for whatever that family did for a living. During dinner with a different family every night, he would open his questionnaire and document the financial health of the family members. In about 100 days, he had worked with all 100 families in the village. Through his conversations with the villagers during this time, he got a good understanding of the financial matters of the village. Finally, Kalyan chose one family that was earning just Rs. 6,500 per annum, and started working with them. The idea was to stabilise their earnings through farming. And in about eight months’ time, Kalyan, the farmer, and the farmer’s wife, turned an uncultivable piece of land into a productive patch, with no external help. Today, the family earns Rs. 14,000 a month.

They generate their own electricity from a handmade wind turbine that was made using an open source design, and live happily in an eco-friendly shelter.

[caption id="attachment_40202" align="aligncenter" width="1200"]Andhra Pradesh Village Handmade wind turbines[/caption]

2013

[caption id="attachment_40205" align="aligncenter" width="1000"]Andhra Pradesh Village Visitors' centre in ProtoVillage[/caption] Working with this family taught Kalyan that abundance is indeed possible, and he wanted to now build an abundant community. But he also learned that the villagers don’t like preachers. They respect people who demonstrate. He purchased 12.5 acres of land in that panchayat itself "to setup a demonstrative rural community that is ecologically sustainable, socially cohesive and economically viable… to be built by the villagers, for the villagers." His wife sold her business and arranged the funds for the same, and a few friends contributed to the initial corpus.
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When the idea was shared with the villagers, 10 families volunteered to be part of the endeavour. It was decided that the village will be home to a maximum of 15 families and all the families, including Kalyan’s family, would have equal rights to the land as guardians.

But everybody had to earn that right by demonstrating their commitment through shram-daan for six months, in which time they dug eight ponds on absolutely barren land.

[caption id="attachment_40208" align="aligncenter" width="960"]Andhra Pradesh Village ProtoVillage ponds[/caption]
“We were an object of ridicule in the village because instead of farming we were digging ponds. But on the last day of making stone walls around the ponds, the clouds broke and it rained. All the ponds filled up and we became a tourist spot in the village,” smiles Kalyan.

2015

[caption id="attachment_40203" align="aligncenter" width="1000"]Andhra Pradesh Village Wind turbine construction[/caption] Today, the village is energy self-reliant, WiFi enabled, and has a consistent source of water. Members of ProtoVillage grow their own food as much as possible. The residents built an eco-friendly visitors’ centre, in which they currently reside. They will soon start building their respective homes. Energy generation happens with the help of a solar plant and a wind turbine at the moment. Soon, a biogas plant will be added to the system. Kalyan identifies experts who are willing to share their knowledge with the villagers. For example, one of his friends helped them set up the wind turbine. He spent a lot of time training villagers and now a few can install the systems themselves. The whole project is crowd funded. Kalyan’s friends, who come to visit, find a project that they want to work upon - like tree plantation, solar water pump, etc. They take it up, fund it, and run it to conclusion.

Kalyan, who has been living without a job since 2008, has simplified his life so much that he doesn’t need much in terms of finances he says.

Andhra Pradesh Village While his parents were concerned in the beginning, they began volunteering once they saw the kind of affection the villagers have for their son. His wife also lives there and adds to the strength significantly.
“The biggest challenge in this whole journey was myself, my own imaginary hurdles. I don’t consider anything outside as a big challenge because you will always find a way. I have a simple dream and I am super committed to it. I live very happily now, thanks to the people I met and their generosity. That’s enough to keep me going for a lifetime,” he concludes.
ProtoVillage should be ready for demonstration to the outside world by August 2017. You can contact Kalyan by writing to him at kalyanakkipeddi@gmail.com.
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This Incredible Man Uses Social Media to Celebrate Birthdays of Street Children across India

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Many street children in India do not even know the date on which they were born. But one man in Delhi had an idea as to how their birthdays could be celebrated. And he’s inspired over 2,000 more people to do the same. This is his story of spreading joy, smiles, and birthday cakes. It was a normal working day for Avijit Bajpai, a 31-year-old marketing professional from Delhi, as he drove to office one day in July last year.
“I stopped at a signal and some kids knocked on my car window asking for money. There were some other kids with them and I saw that they were playing with discarded birthday party materials like an empty cake box, caps, plastic knife, etc. Someone must have thrown those things and these kids picked them up to celebrate a makeshift birthday...no cake, nothing,” remembers Avijit.
After this, the signal turned green - the kids went back to the roadside, waiting for it to turn red again so they could resume begging, and everyone went on with their lives. But Avijit could not get the image of kids celebrating a fake birthday party with things collected from the garbage out of his head.

He thought about it all the way while driving, and by the time he reached his office, an idea was brewing in his head.

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“It was simple. I wanted to spend some time with street children like the ones I saw, and spread smiles in the process,” he says.

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So he went ahead and posted a tweet saying he wanted to celebrate birthday parties with needy children from the slums of Delhi. The tweet evoked a big response – with many people tweeting back that they too would be interested in doing something similar. Avijit then formed a Facebook group of people who wanted to join him and named it Happy Birthday Bharat.

Their first event took place in the last week of July, 2015. The group had about 50 people by then, and around 15 of them, including Avijit, gathered in Connaught Place (CP) one Sunday.

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“All of us just went to CP and we were very confused about what to do and how to do it.” The first big challenge was how to fund the birthday party that they were planning to throw. “We decided we would pitch in with equal contributions and go ahead with whatever amount gets collected. Each of us put in about Rs. 500-600, and the accumulated sum was enough for our first party with about 15-20 kids,” recalls Avijit.
Like always, CP had a lot of street children. Some were begging and some were selling things like pens, toys, etc. The first thing the team did was to buy everything that a couple of kids were selling, so they would be free from the day's labour. Since most children had no idea about their birthdays, two of the youngest kids from the gathering of about 20 were selected, a boy and a girl, and it was decided that their birthdays would be celebrated.

In a park, the kids were welcomed with a cake, some colourful birthday caps, colouring books, jigsaw puzzles, and music.

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And from here on, the party, so to speak, has continued.

[caption id="attachment_36592" align="aligncenter" width="750"]Every cake has Happy Birthday Bharat written on it Every cake has Happy Birthday Bharat written on it[/caption] According to Avijit, Happy Birthday Bharat is not an organization. It is a citizen initiative and does not have any formal structure of operation as of now.

Today, the group has more than 2,200 active members on Facebook and birthday parties for over 200 children have already been organized in 10 different cities, including Mumbai, Bengaluru and Pune.

[caption id="attachment_36587" align="aligncenter" width="750"]A real birthday A real birthday[/caption] Many people who are not even a part of the group, but like the idea, are also going ahead and organizing parties in their own way. In Delhi itself, parties have been organized about 10 times in different areas like CP, Gurgaon Sector 14 market, Noida Sector 18 market, Kamla Nagar, on the premises of an organization called 'Can Kids...Kids Can,' which is a hostel for underprivileged children fighting cancer, etc.
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These birthday parties are not just about a cake-cutting ceremony. They are real parties, the kind that the kids watch on TV or witness being celebrated in the homes where they go to work.

[caption id="attachment_36589" align="aligncenter" width="750"]More than just cakes More than just cakes[/caption]

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Every Wednesday, people from different cities coordinate on the Happy Birthday Bharat Facebook page to check who is in which area and how many people can come together for a party at a particular location.

birthday10 They then chip in financially. The parties have activities like story telling, quizzes with chocolates as prizes, jigsaw puzzles for the kids to solve, lots of music, and dancing. The cake always has ‘Bharat’ written on it, and the venue is never fixed. They go to places like parks, restaurants, malls, or empty spaces on the roadside. When it comes to gifts, everyone attending the party gets one, and sometimes the gifts are selected by the kids themselves.

They get slippers/shoes, books, watches, clothes, toys, and more.

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"During one celebration, the parents of a kid were also there. When we asked them what they wanted for a gift, they asked for a week’s rations. So we bought this for them," informs Avijit.

As for the funds, everyone chips in, and Avijit refuses to take help from different organizations or individuals who are willing to offer money.

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"I refuse because all I actually want to do is spend time with these kids. Chipping in with Rs. 500-1,000 in a month is more like giving up on just a movie ticket for most of us."
But for these street kids, who are not even sure where their next meal in the day is coming from, is a birthday party once in a while enough? What is the larger purpose of this initiative?

"My initial idea was very basic – of some people going to the market, meeting these kids, and spending time with them. But as I saw the traction, and heard stories of these kids, I am now thinking of expanding this into something bigger," says Avijit, who has heard many heart breaking accounts of the challenges these children face.

birthday8 In their first birthday party in CP, when Avijit asked young Ashila's mother why she did not send her daughter to school, saying that they would be willing to take care of all the expenses involved, she just told them that begging was a family tradition. She did it, her father did it, and now her daughter would do it too.

He once met a kid who polishes shoes in Gurgaon and all that he wanted as a birthday gift was school admission for his sister.

birthday9 Unfortunately, when the team tried to spot him during their next visit, they could not find the boy. Keeping such stories in mind, and the fact that they are all working professionals and will not be able to do follow-ups, Avijit is now looking at collaborating with different NGOs working in various fields, which can keep track of these children and work with them. While Happy Birthday Bharat may have been his brainchild, Avijit believes all the people involved are owners in this initiative – Kunal Bauva and Hardik Joshi from Mumbai, Premlata Rai, Arun P Khot, Gulshan Perrera, and Nikhil from Delhi, and many others in the 2,000+ strong team.
“People are very motivated about this initiative. Some volunteers even take their families to meet the kids and have a good time with them,” concludes Avijit.
You can know more about the group here.
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Meet the Thane Auto Driver Who Plants New Trees and Takes Care of the Old. All for a Greener India!

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While many people, including the government, are eagerly waiting for the rains, a rikshaw driver in Thane has assumed his part of the responsibility and is sowing the seed for a Greener India: ‘Hara Bhara Bharat’ as he calls it.

Purushottam Das Gupta is an auto driver from Thane, Maharashtra, who couldn’t just sit back and watch while the trees on the sides of the roads were cut down and the new ones planted in their place were not well protected.

TheBetterIndia (8) So he decided to water the existing and the new ones himself, as he went around the city in his rikshaw. Mr Gupta started carrying a 15 ltr water can in his rikshaw everyday to water the trees on the sides of the road. Later, as his solo efforts did not keep him satisfied, he also started to carry a register in the rikshaw and began convincing people to do the same, especially other rikshaw walas he met. He named his mission ‘Sadbhaavana – Hara Bhara Bharat’.

He has more than 50 members listed in the register now, and has started a Whatsapp group where he shares the calendar of tree plantation activities.

TheBetterIndia (9) Purushottam Das Gupta has his family standing alongside him firmly. This is evident by the fact that he celebrated his anniversary in March, by planting two trees along the banks of Upavan Lake.

He urges 'Sadbhavana – Hara Bhara Bharat' members to also celebrate their special days by planting trees.

TheBetterIndia (10) Environment week from 5th to 11th June 2016 was celebrated by Mr Gupta and his fellow members by planting 50 trees in the city which they had sourced from the Municipal Corporation.
He believes,"If the people who go on morning walks carry as much water as they can with them to water the trees along the way, we can go a long distance in securing a better future for us as well as our children."
Mr Gupta is an example to everyone. Instead of cribbing and cursing like many of us do, he chose to act. His pace may be slow, but his efforts keep moving just like his rikshaw, and his destination is loud and clear: Hara Bhara Bharat. If you wish to contact Purushottam Das Gupta, his mobile number is 98191 45183. Do hop in to his rikshaw some day to hear more from him about his mission. - Apurva Oka 

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This Man Uses His Limited Resources to Buy Drinking Water for Poor Residents in Drought-Hit Junnar

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A young man from drought-hit Junnar in Maharashtra is quenching the thirst of area residents with his own resources. Several major rivers like Ganga, Godavari, Krishna and Netravati have been reduced to a trickle this summer. Groundwater levels are at a record low. Hand pumps have dried up completely in many places. The number of people impacted by this water scarcity and the intensity of the impact are huge. This is only the fourth time in a century that there has been a back-to-back drought in India. According to recent reports by Groundwater Surveys and Development Agency (GSDA) Maharashtra is the most affected state. The government has been trying its level best to provide drinking water to people with water tankers. Recently, a special train carrying around 5 lakh litres of water was also sent to parched Latur in Marathawad, which is battling the worst drought ever. Junnar in Pune district of Maharashtra is another city that is badly affected.

People here used to mainly rely on hand pumps for drinking water but even those have dried up now. The municipality supplies water only once a month to different localities in the city.

sj1 Shrikant Jadhav, a young resident of Junnar, has been observing the severe problem poor people in the area face due to lack of drinking water.
“I see the rich people getting drinking water cans – this solves their problem. But the poor cannot even afford water these days,” he says.
Shrikant has a small mobile phone repairing shop in Junnar. His limited resources prevent him from taking any major steps to alleviate this problem. So he has approached a distributor called Matoshri in Junnar from whom he buys water cans at Rs. 35 each. Shrikant now distributes water at places where he sees people standing in long queues in front of virtually dry hand pumps. He pours the water from the cans in the empty buckets the people are holding and goes back to the distributor for refills.

Shrikant has spent Rs. 17,000 from his own pocket on this effort so far and distributed 20,000 litres of water.

sj3 Shrikant distributes water every day in the Pansumbapeth, Shukrawarpeth and Kumbhar Gali areas of Junnar. He now calls his initiative Parivartan Helpline Sewa.

His number is displayed on the card that he distributes in slum areas; the card says, “If you are struggling for drinking water then just make one call to get free drinking water.”

sj3 (1) Shrikant’s family has now started supporting him in his venture.

“We all earn money but the satisfaction that you get on spending your earnings to help the distressed and seeing them happy is unmatchable,” says Shrikant.

sj4 Please call Shrikant on 8055551616 for more information.

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